Sometimes, I feel like I’m talking to myself. Most of my life actually. I’ve never felt a part of anything or important to anyone. Kind of like I was/am a tag on. Someone that you get stuck with. You have no other choice. I mostly know it’s not true, but it’s a feeling with me every second non the less. I find myself trying to talk to people and finish a thought or conversation, but then someone better comes along. Then I’m sitting there alone wondering why I even attempted. So I write on this blog and I hope that my words are being read. I hope that someone is hearing me. I hope that someone understands…
Sometimes, I feel like the sadness will never go away. It is something I’ve always known, sadness. I can honestly not remember a time when I wasn’t sad. I can’t remember a time when wasn’t wondering why God would do this to me?! Why would he create me and force me to be of a world where I never belong. So much of my life I wish I was never born. I truly don’t think my life needs to be existent. There is no point to me…
Sometimes, I feel like I let my life pass me by. There hasn’t been anything in my life that I’ve done that couldn’t be done by anyone else. I haven’t accomplished anything! I didn’t finish high school and continue to carry that shame. I never went to college or pursued any of my dreams. I’ve been married twice, so I couldn’t even succeed there! I work at freaking walmart and Wendy’s! No great strides are being made by me…
Sometimes, I worry Remy will grow tired of me. Here’s the thing… Remy and I are incredibly simpatico! It happened instantly that we became friends, a feat shared by only two other people, but there is an age gap. He didn’t have time to experience a lot of life before I came along and tied him down. What if he realizes he can do so much better than me?!
Sometimes, I worry that I’m too angry and my heart is filling with hate. Just today I had a moment where I felt I truly hated another person. Don’t get me wrong, I tend to be firery and can be hot headed, but I never thought I hated someone. Angry with, annoyed by… Sure. I don’t know. I feel like hate and discord are just creeping into my soul and soon it’ll be all I know.
Sometimes, I feel like I give too much of myself and it drains me. I have this tendency to want to do for others. It doesn’t matter if I get anything in return. I like to help others. I like to teach and help them feel self sufficient. I want to do as much as I can for another person so their burden can be less. But here’s the thing… I don’t tend to see that come back my way. So there I go always putting more onto my plate so others can have less. Then when I divert even the slightest bit and someone who is use to me being nothing but selfless gets upset. They tear into me. Sometimes to my face, but mostly behind my back to ensure that they won’t have to deal with the consequences. But here is the thing, we always find out! We always end up knowing. And the pain that it causes me is real. People say don’t take it so personally, but here’s the thing, it is personal. You are cutting into me because you want to feel good about yourself.
I am on very little sleep and I’m going to get less tonight. I’m not sure that any of this is even making sense. But I’m going to publish it anyway. Come what may…